Technology, Thanksgiving & Togetherness

Posted by Jack Derby, Head Coach on Thu, Nov 24, 2016

Bondville Fair.jpgAs a 7th generation Vermonter, other than my years living overseas in the Peace Corps, I've always found my way back to the Green Mountain State for the celebration of Thanksgiving. Probably not a DNA thing, since none of my relatives live here anymore, but mostly, it's a Thanksgiving tradition thing and a welcoming back of friends on the slopes of Stratton, where I've been coming every Thanksgiving ever since it opened. 

This morning's trip from the NH beach to the bustling town of Bondville, (pop. 647), known for being the oldest summer fair in Vermont, took just three hours (ayah...can't get theah from heah) which always makes me think about how technology advances have changed our Thanksgivings. 

  • Bapa, my beloved grandfather and the original Derby entrepreneur who left Vermont to set up his first stores in Harvard and Davis Squares, always returned to Poultney, Vermont every Thanksgiving to visit Horace, his father and a true pioneer (he left Vermont at the age of 17 to ride Pony Express and become a soldier on the western New Mexico frontier)
  • My trip this morning took just under three hours including traveling at 75 mph on three interstate highways.  Bapa's trip took two full days in a new Ford without GPS, power steering, defrosters or heated seats over mostly dirt roads, which were, once he got to Vermont, only deeply rutted single tracks frozen into the mud.
  • I was on the phone during most of my trip this morning calling friends and family to wish them a wonderful holiday. Back in the early 1940's, Bapa was driving to a house with no phone, no electricity and and no inside plumbing.
  • I'll take lots of pictures tonight at dinner on my iPhone and post them on Facebook while I am texting them to my friends.  Bapa, who was an early pioneer in selling cameras, took pictures with his prized Kodak which allowed just 8 shots of film on a roll, which was then mailed to Kodak for processing and returned a week later in the form of printed pictures.  

technology images-jpg.jpgSo technology has shaped and reshaped our lives, and, at a faster pace than ever before.  Today, in addition to hundreds of emails a day, an uncountable number of texts and frequent daily postings on FB, LI and Twitter, I have the excitement of communicating (mostly by email and some by Facebook) every day, multiple times a day, with about 30 of my high school buddies, simply called "The Tribe".

Some of it is actually important, some the postings of life events, and some consists of lots of heated "points-of-view" and outright disagreements, of course, about politics. But the reality of it all is that we, The Tribe, are still friends after all these years, and remain closely connected through the ever-evolving magic of technology.    

thanksgiving.pngToday is a day of remembering, of thankfulness, of hugging and laughing and reaching out to friends that we may not have seen in a while. I would ask you to take some time before the football games to reach out and connect to old friends and distant matter how long it has been.  Give them a call, send them a text, use FB, or just email them.  Today is one of those few days that you can reach out without any reason at all and simply say, "I was thinking about you" and connect to just wish someone "Happy Thanksgiving?" 

...And then take just a minute and imagine how you will be sending Thanksgiving messages to your friends and family 20 or 50 years from now.  

Happy Thanksgiving from the metropolis of Bondville, where only in Vermont, the same town can be called one name, "Bondville", by the federal government and also "Winhall", by the town and state governments.

Good selling this week!

  Jack Derby
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